About Women's Orgasm Quick Facts More than 50% of American women don't climax consistently or easily with intercourse Women need to learn for themselves what arouses them and brings them to orgasm-Kinsey Masturbation is a wonderful tool for learning what kinds of touch your body responds to Women need to guide their lovers in giving the kind of stimulation that will help her climax. Most women-as much as 75% require stimulation of the clitoris to have an orgasm A Husband's Guide to Helping Her Achieve Orgasm Often a couple does not talk about it nor do they realize they are neglecting the clitoris. Procedure: Locate her clitoris-look for it by gently stroking or rubbing the spot where the labia meet at the top Find out what kind of touch she likes, how much pressure, whether fast or slow, whether direct touch or nearby touch. She can demonstrate with her finger on his arm, or by guiding him with her hand. Experiment with a vibrator It is often a source of arousal for a woman to tell her husband exactly what works for her.